I have gotten email and comments from other people who were there and were either completely oblivious or who didn't mind. But I'm sorry that we made her uncomfortable. I don't think there was anything wrong with the project, and it certainly wasn't as blatant as some of the making out and bondage activities in which other people completely unassociated with the project engaged. But because this is different from those rather expected activities, I can see that it would be difficult to accept. The whole thing is moot, however, since we've all decided that the project is not ready for prime time.