Also highly troubling is how much it's come out how dominated by men FanLib's organization is -- and how easy they thought it would be to walk into the "Girls'" party and just pick off all our good stuff without us raising so much as a peep.

If it's any comfort, there are men in fandom who aren't anything like the people running FanLib. I, for one, frankly can't believe what they're trying to do. And I find their attitude, not just toward women, but toward fans in general, fairly disturbing.