Well, we didn't find it. It was there all along under our noses. We just never noticed it.

Both of my parents died before I ever started a blog or before social media was so ubiquitous. However, of my friends, it is only the one who's most recent and who I am least close to who occasionally reads my blog. I suspect that it's not unusual that the people who we're closest to are the ones least likely to pay attention to these things.